Stop being soft & be aggressive in life!

My father taught me how to be a man when l was still young. He used was a soldier & an aggressive fighter. Whenever there was conflict between my relatives or some family issues he was the one to be called & solve every problem. Once he made a decision, no one would change it. If it was taking too long to solve the problem with words, he would solve it with hands. My article is not encouraging violence or bullying type attitude but if you grew up soft, shy & weak, being aggressive can be a learned behavior & in time it can become locked in your personality. Many people are struggling in life with poverty, illness, threats & failure because they are being soft. I was watching Michael Jordan interview this morning & he said ““I realized if I was going to achieve anything in life I had to be aggressive. I had to get out there and go for it. I don’t believe you can achieve anything by being passive.”  Few weeks ago I made a video about being aggressive & you can check it on video section but I came up with more new ideas to stop being soft & be more aggressive:

1.       Step up & make decision

When you are at a restaurant & the waitress gives you little food ask for more. If someone is telling you something which is not interesting don’t be afraid to interfere & change the topic. If you are on a date & your boyfriend or girlfriend is boring, don’t be afraid to get up & leave. Stop being soft bra! Stop being weak sister!

2.       Confront someone 

Don't be scared of disagreeing OR tell people NO at their face. Always tell people what you like & what you don’t like so that they won’t disrespect you. If you plan to use the ignoring method, you will only get walked in the face again & again. When someone do you wrong confront them & tell them instead of being soft, crying on your pillow at night, dying with anger & passing the frustration to your family & friends. Whenever l am talking I prefer the listener to look at me before l point my finger at their nose or hit the table with my fist in order to make my point clear. Moreover, a good fight once in a while will keep you sharp and help you get rid of this problematic confrontation anxiety.

3.       Be a man not a mangina

Men you are supposed to be a man not a wussy! According to Judges 14:8, Samson was aggressive enough that he could tore the lion apart with his bare hands. Be a man! Wake up before 5AM before everyone is awake & sleep after everyone has fallen asleep!  When you hear any silly sound outside the house in the middle of night grab a touch & a metal & go outside. Take the lead in life. Take care of your girlfriend or wife. Feed her, provide a luxury healthy lifestyle for her, take her out & be protective. Do the mainly job.  Fix the door & electrical plugs. Cut the wood, do the gardening, go to hunting, hit the gym & punch the walls. Stop being weak. Provide for her not you being provided. #Soft generation!

4.       Feel the pain

Many people wait for something to happen to them so that they become aggressive in life. They wait to for death of their loved ones, or wait to be fired at their boring job in order to chase their dreams aggressively. Feel the pain in life instead of staying in comfort zone. I was watching Les Brown this morning & he said “pain is temporary, it may last for an hour, day, month or for years but it will definitely disappear”. Be willing to fight so that you get punched at the face & feel how it’s like to be hurt. Physical violence is not always a good thing but it’s part of who we are, it existed long time ago since Abel & Cain time because sometimes in life you have to defend yourself instead of running away from your enemies or bullies whether in club or anywhere. I enjoyed playing wrestling with my friends when I was a teen because I loved the toughness that wrestling demanded. Wrestling is a sport that pulls the aggressiveness out of you. Personally l love street fighting, it unleashes my inner beast. Even when I enrolled at university, the first thing I did was to join the campus kickboxing club & gym. Don’t take it personally but sometimes you have to hurt a few people’s feelings in your way and expect others to do the same to you.

5.       Never give up! Be persistent

2018 is a perfect time for you to live life aggressively! Decide what you want to do this year, put together a plan of aggressive action, and execute that plan. If the first plan does not work, come up with another plan. If that one fails go back to the drawing board and come up with yet another plan. All successful people were aggressive enough to never give up. The word aggressive always results in bad reputation because many people associate it with violence but aggressive action leads to success. The stronger the goal, the stronger the resolve and the better the results. An aggressive stretch goal is far more rewarding than a small boring goal. Be aggressive, engage fully in life. You'll be glad you did. Break out of soft generation and unleash your inner beast! Stop complaining and take charge of your life today!

At one point, when you want to become a real man, you need to stop taking advice from the mass media, school or your mother! If you want peace, prepare for war! 

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