Why are you still single? It’s almost valentine

Have you ever asked yourself the reason why girls spend so much time doing making up? they want to be noticed & approached by men. All the time when l ask someone why he/she is still single they quickly give an excuse. Someone might say I never met Ms Right or Mr Right. Someone might say “I don’t believe in love.” The excuses are so endless & it takes a man of patient to listen to them.

Let me be real with you, loneliness is the most painful feeling in the world, ask any widow or a divorced man. Lot of men in this soft generation they are cowards, wussies & too nice! They are too scared to approach a beautiful woman & they prefer to abuse themselves with drugs & masturbate rather than having the guts to talk to a woman. Other men have self-esteem issues thus why they prefer to settle down with an average woman instead of woman of their dreams. Men you are leaders, you are initiators you should be direct when you approach a girl. You are too nice thus why you are caged in friend zone. What about girls? Lot of them are just soft pussies. They judge all the boys & the whole world according to their past heart breaks & past relationships thus why they are still single & lonely. Learn to move on, past is past. Be like a bird, it leaves the entire heavy burden before it fly’s.

If your girlfriend or boyfriend or husband cheats on you it means you are lacking something. Marriage is a life commitment you have to be trained before you get married. Even you single mothers or widows allow yourselves to be remarried again. Don’t give excuses about age. What about Abraham & Sarah from bible? Abraham married at 75 & Sarah at 65. And how old are you? If you keep on giving excuses, remember time has no patience on you. Know your reasons of getting into relationship or marriage. Don’t date someone because of familiarity, date according to your choice & standards. Don’t date someone because of loneliness, insecurity, peer pressure, financial challenges etc. It’s not good to fall in love with someone you don’t trust but having one or two heartbreaks is good for your health it will makes you aggressive in future

How can you get into relationship before valentine?

1.Strategic position

At my church they are lot of big desperate girls who are in their late 20’s & early 30’s but still not married what a shame. You move with your parents, family, and friends, everywhere you go, even in church you sit with them, grocery shops, in a bus so how do you expect men to approach you whilst you are surrounded by people always. C’mon you should learn the art of strategic position in order to meet the right person. Don’t spend the whole day locking yourself inside the door, browsing pornography on internet be outgoing. Potential partners can be found everywhere online dating, speed dating, weddings, at work place, out door, house parties, charity events, college, classes, social activities, vacations, your social circle etc. So don’t give excuses about where to meet her/him. But this soft generation they are only good at asking girls on Facebook their whatsapp numbers but they can’t face real ladies in reality what a shame!


2. Unique Packaging

Human beings judge you according to appearance. Your talents are not displayed on your hair, your degree is not written on your forehead, all invisible stuff don’t count what count is what can be seen by eye. Some of you are still single because of poor dressing & poor grooming. I believe everyone should eat their breakfast after bathing, nothing irritates like body odour & sweat. In summer you should also wash your body twice. You should pay attention to small details of your body because it counts. For example, brushing your teeth, shaving armpits, beards, changing hairstyle [whether you are man or woman], changing dressing style all counts especially if you are single. Unique packaging maximize your chance to meet the perfect partner of your dreams because you will be displaying your best positive qualities naturally & I call it unique packaging.


3.Networking & socialization

Socializing skills is not something you are born with but it’s something which can be learned. You should know how to interact with someone new you just met & display your best positive qualities. You can express through your body language that you are interested in someone without telling him [ladies you should learn this. Don’t wait to be approached while remaining silence, greet him, show some interest so that he can notice you, and fight for what you love. ] Everyone should master the art of body language & non-verbal q’s. 


ln conclusion, lf you learn these 3 tips, finding a right person will be easy for you. Spending valentine while masturbating or going through the social media whole day it hurts a lot. In addition to the above, don’t expect your soul mate to be 100% perfect. There are things you have to teach him/her in order to be a perfect match. Give others a chance to learn to love. Love is for free, open your heart & let love takes over.


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