The art of recovering your ex-lover

At the end of summer, we finally made a decision that the relationship is done. Although we decided to end it, l still had feelings for her. Days & weeks went by, while l was having sleepless nights. So fuck it! l took my hunting equipment & went back to the jungle to fight for the women of my life . Here is the formula l used to recover my ex-girlfriend l hope it might works for you as well: Step #

1. Understand why the relationship ended

lnsanity is when you do the same thing over & over again expecting a change. You can’t try to go & fight for something you love until you understand why the relationship ended. The first step l took was to figure what went wrong in the relationship & try to avoid the mistakes in the future.

2. Break contact

This is one of the most crucial steps. The next thing l did was to break the contact. l stopped calling, texting & blocked every channel of communication. You have to make your ex believe that you are gone for real. During this time that’s when you have to reinvent yourself. 

3. Reinvent yourself

You have to understand your strength & weakness in relationship. Are you too insecure? Too jealousy? You are funny? Understand who you are before you get into relationship again.  Know that relationship is like a movie, choose a new character you are going to play. Choose positive qualities your partner used to like about you & cancel the negative they hated about you. I know it’s not easy as it sound but it depends with your personality & adaptability to change. Reinvent yourself mentally & physically. For example lf you are a lady change your hairstyle & look sexier etc. if you a guy hit the gym & stop being too nice.

4. Re-entry

After you have broken the contact & reinvent yourself. You have to make them believe them that you have changed for real. Nowadays people are tired of reality they now want to fall in love with illusion.  After you have rehearsed your new role, choose a dramatic way to re-enter into her life again because in this relationship movie you are the writer & director.

5. Reignite the feelings & reconcile

After l have finished the steps above & re-enter her life  l had to reignite the feelings & behavior that made her fall in love with me firstly. You know your person. Understand her/his weakness & strength & use it to your advantage.

ln conclusion, once bitten twice shy.

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