The art of using words to empower!
Personally l have messed up a lot of times in my life by saying things that l was not supposed to say when I was angry. The issue is; back then before l was what l am today, someone might irritates me for a long time while l stay quite & it just come a day when someone say, do or act crazy to me & l say things l was not supposed to say & that would be the end of our relationship whether you are my friend or whoever you might be.
As l became more mature, l began to tell people during the event is happening that l don’t tolerate or accept that kind of behavior or treatment in a polite way & l began to create powerful relationship with people due to my honest character instead of waiting for a day to burst out.
How can we use our words to empower instead of destroying?
1.Stop Gossiping
One of my fave quotes says “Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events & small minds gossip.” From what l have observed in life, people who don’t have better things to do with their lives are the one who invest their time& energy in low self-esteem behavior of gossiping. The same people you are gossiping with are going to say shit about you when they are hanging around with other people when you are not there. Always say good things about someone when they are not around instead of criticize them.
One of my fave quotes says “Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events & small minds gossip.” From what l have observed in life, people who don’t have better things to do with their lives are the one who invest their time& energy in low self-esteem behavior of gossiping. The same people you are gossiping with are going to say shit about you when they are hanging around with other people when you are not there. Always say good things about someone when they are not around instead of criticize them.
2.Stop Lying
How many times do you lie in order to impress people? I know a lot of people who are living double lives: one on social media & the other one of reality. For how long are you going to maintain that fake shit? One day you will crush! The moment you become honest to yourself, you will become honest to others. Personally l found out the only way l had to be influential & connect with real audience was to be vulnerable & be able to say uncomfortable truth to the public. The moment you become real & vulnerable you will no longer have anything to hide or lie. You will attract people by being yourself.
How many times do you lie in order to impress people? I know a lot of people who are living double lives: one on social media & the other one of reality. For how long are you going to maintain that fake shit? One day you will crush! The moment you become honest to yourself, you will become honest to others. Personally l found out the only way l had to be influential & connect with real audience was to be vulnerable & be able to say uncomfortable truth to the public. The moment you become real & vulnerable you will no longer have anything to hide or lie. You will attract people by being yourself.
3.Stop negativity
Any kind of negative talk or negative behavior is actually bad for your health & other people’s health also. Nothing irritates me than people who like to criticize, argue or any kind of negative talk. We should use our words to praise & bless instead of cursing. Words come from your heart & you say what you are. Think before you speak & learn to eliminate any kind of negative words that might try to come out of your mouth.
Any kind of negative talk or negative behavior is actually bad for your health & other people’s health also. Nothing irritates me than people who like to criticize, argue or any kind of negative talk. We should use our words to praise & bless instead of cursing. Words come from your heart & you say what you are. Think before you speak & learn to eliminate any kind of negative words that might try to come out of your mouth.
4.Stop complaining
No one likes to be around people who love to complain. Personally the best way l deal with people who love to complain is to quickly move to the solution instead of discussing about the problem. So yeah you hate your job so what are you going to do about it? Yeah you don’t like this relationship or marriage so what are you going to do about it? Yeah the weather is so bad man so what are you going to do about it? Once l focus on the positive side you hear the negative person getting stuck or try to put their problem on me, pretending to ask for advice. Stop complaining & start to focus on solutions!
No one likes to be around people who love to complain. Personally the best way l deal with people who love to complain is to quickly move to the solution instead of discussing about the problem. So yeah you hate your job so what are you going to do about it? Yeah you don’t like this relationship or marriage so what are you going to do about it? Yeah the weather is so bad man so what are you going to do about it? Once l focus on the positive side you hear the negative person getting stuck or try to put their problem on me, pretending to ask for advice. Stop complaining & start to focus on solutions!
5.Stop Excuses
There are always people who create their obstacles & road blocks on the road to success whilst the road is clear & welcoming. Those people l like to call them excutizers. People who usually give excuses they really don’t want to do something otherwise if you want to do something you will find reasons why it can be done instead of why it can’t be done. People love to give excuses about age, “l am still young so l can’t do that” or “l am too old l can’t do that”. In life there is no right timing, the time is now! Excuses are for weak human beings who accept failure & poverty as the normal lifestyle. The world does not care about what you are going through it only cares about the results. Stop giving excuses & find reasons why your vision must be turned into reality.
There are always people who create their obstacles & road blocks on the road to success whilst the road is clear & welcoming. Those people l like to call them excutizers. People who usually give excuses they really don’t want to do something otherwise if you want to do something you will find reasons why it can be done instead of why it can’t be done. People love to give excuses about age, “l am still young so l can’t do that” or “l am too old l can’t do that”. In life there is no right timing, the time is now! Excuses are for weak human beings who accept failure & poverty as the normal lifestyle. The world does not care about what you are going through it only cares about the results. Stop giving excuses & find reasons why your vision must be turned into reality.
6.Stop Judging
Judging usually comes from comparing the way you do your things against the way someone does his things. No one is interested in your negative opinions. You have to learn to quite that inner little voice whenever it starts to compare. Lot of people love to judge according to what they see whilst they don’t know whatsoever that is seen by an eye is deceiving. People have master the art of deception: some people use dressing, makeup, body language & other visible tools to manipulate & deceive people. Right judgment comes from heart & spirit. I strongly believe judging is a waste of mental & physical energy. Stop judging so that you may not be judged.
Judging usually comes from comparing the way you do your things against the way someone does his things. No one is interested in your negative opinions. You have to learn to quite that inner little voice whenever it starts to compare. Lot of people love to judge according to what they see whilst they don’t know whatsoever that is seen by an eye is deceiving. People have master the art of deception: some people use dressing, makeup, body language & other visible tools to manipulate & deceive people. Right judgment comes from heart & spirit. I strongly believe judging is a waste of mental & physical energy. Stop judging so that you may not be judged.
In conclusion, always be honest in whatever you say, live by your words, fulfill your promise, love & wish others well, let go of judgment, find reasons of why something must be done, think & say positive things.
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