How do l know that he loves me
Hey Worldchanger l don’t think my boyfriend loves me although he always told me that he do. How should l know that he truly loves me can you please reply.
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Hello Amanda, l have been experiencing what you are currently going through. I am going to answer your question according to my personal experience. The best way to see how your partner loves you is:
1. They will show you
Talk is cheap everyone can brag &tell you how much they love you but action speaks louder than words. Being is the highest state of living & every word should be fulfilled by action. My girlfriend shows me how much she loves me by giving me intangible gifts which l truly appreciates.
2. He gives you the most expensive in the world
If you want to see whether a person loves you or not he will give you the most expensive gift in the world which is time. During the week from 8am to 5pm l will be focusing on my passions but after 7pm l set aside some hours to spend with my bae. If your lover takes some time every single day to spend with he truly loves you. I can’t spend 2 days without seeing my oneness although if l go within l go without.
3. Check up on you
Personally I prefer talking face to face with someone l love rather than using social media, whatsapp, facebook, phone calls & whatever although it matters when it’s a long distance. I don’t stay with my girlfriend but every single day before I reach home always tell her to come & scratch my back because l will scratch her usually after 8pm. I can’t & she can’t spend a day without checking up on me & I can’t be shy to tell the world that on 14 February was the best day of my life.
4. Give you undivided attention
Some people they say im arrogant because I always tell them when you are spending time with me don’t touch your phone or answer your phone calls because personally l take is as disrespecting. Even if you’re reading this article & you never met me before don’t give me undivided attention when l schedule you on my appointment because l will leave or tell you to leave my presence. I truly believe when someone values you they don’t give you undivided attention.
5. Tell you the truth in a beautiful way
I respect people who are honest than liars. Before I date someone I 100% respect her if she tells me she has another boyfriend rather than finding out myself. Someone who tells you the truth in a beautiful way truly loves you & respect ya!
6. They know you are sensitive
Every human being on earth is sensitive although I am not. From my personal experience l have noticed that some people are sensitive to certain subjects so learning to respect someone is not a want but it’s a need.
7. They love your vibe
The message l have preaching since 19 December 2012 which is the day l started this Facebook page is to think positive & motive the doers. People l hang around with or share experience we interact because they love my vibe & I also love their vibe. A guy should be attracted to your soul more than your body although appearance matters. Character matters than appearance although some people have mastered the art of deception. I don’t focus on appearance because energy matters although everything matters. The person who makes you happy & feel positive when you around them truly loves you.
7. Be self & feel comfortable around you
Someone who truly loves you is open & he will tell you dirty secrets like the reasons they took pictures at grave yard in the middle of night.Jeniffer & Juliet I know you are reading this article thus why l say what I am saying . It also takes so much strength to be vulnerable although my articles, poems, music & beats are…
8. lntroduce you to their family
-if I introduce you to my family I truly loves you & care for you but if I don’t you should begin to suspect. When someone introduces you to their family members they truly care for you & don’t fuck up.
9 They are not ashamed of you
When someone is not ashamed of you they truly public display you& so proud of you. l can’t be shy to tell the world that l have put a couple of my ex-girlfriends on my public social media profile pictures at that time we were still in love & introduce them to my friends & family.
10. Build you up instead of putting you down
Lastly but not least important your love should build, motivate & support your dreams instead of destroy them. It happens that some people might be insecure & scared that you are going to leave them once your dreams begins to come to reality because I have saw it happening to my ex’s. Avoid & dump negative people & focus on people who appreciate the way you are without judging you.
In conclusion, what your heart & instinctive tells you about your boyfriend matters the most than this article although I am enlightening you.
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